Women and Critisism

The funny thing about women is this, they have a lot to say, they have a lot of suggestions, they have a lot of comments, etc.

A friend once told me "Women like to comment, suggest, criticise, etc, but if you ask them to make a decisive choice (make a decision), they usually don't want to, because they are scared to make the wrong decision"

So I asked her "Then why do women have to say so much and make all kinds of comments and criticism on their husbands choices? Especially when the man is deciding on something, the woman will try and influence him to a certain extend. Why?"

" We are women mah. Women memang like that one" She said. "But ah, if you ask us to make decision, surely we don't dare one, cause we scared we make wrong decision, so we rather push the responsibilities to the man, and when he makes the wrong decision, then we can come in and say "NAH. SEE I TOLD YOU SO""

Gee. Go figure.

I'm "trying" to change my food system here man for health reasons. So after consulting a friend, she suggested I lead a healthier lifestyle and gave me some tips.

The night before this, Ash's wife Dima (who's a doctor) said to me "You better control your food lah. You're getting worst. You better watch what you eat. Don't simply eat things"

"Ok. I will" I said.

So after the tips given by my friend, I went to the supermarket and got myself a packet of Quakers Oatmeal, which I am gonna have for breakfast every morning now. It's supposed to be healthy and low in fat and would lower my cholesterol. I also got myself a loaf of WHOLEMEAL bread, which I will use to make a TUNA (in water) sandwich, without any Mayonaise or salt.

Ok. It's gonna be a torturing diet, but I gotta try this. I'm gonna take this everyday for breakfast and lunch - instead of my usual cucur pisang, donut and curry puffs. And during lunch I'm gonna cut down on my rice and eat more protein and veges.

brought my "goodies" out of the car and into the kitchen a few moments ago, Ash and his wife saw my Wholemeal Bread, my "Tuna In Water", and my Quakers Oatmeal.

What is this? he and his wife asked

"I'm gonna start taking these for breakfast and lunch these days. Trying to lose some weight" I replied, enthusiastically.

You know. These aren't gonna work for you. You cannot do anything about your weight lah. No matter how you diet. It never worked for you, and it probably never will", she said.

Errr... Correct me if I'm wrong, but didn't she tell me that I should start to control what I eat?