Friday, March 21, 2008

Truth about cats and dogs

Well... If you saw this movies you will only start to realise the significance of it once you fall in real love or get married.

Seriously, before getting this nor that and living together as partners, you will not be able to grasp the full idea of what this movie is about.

You see, MEN (dogs) can only work their brain on ONE thing at a time, whereas WOMEN (cats) are so gifted they can complete multiple task simultaneously (that explains the driving, whilst putting on lipstick, and at the same time talking on their mobile phones, and also listening to the news on the radio). That's the beauty of being a Woman.

MEN are simple creatures, sometimes we are so simple WOMEN call us stupid. :)

WOMEN on the other hand are, "complicated" creatures, They are so complicated that MEN refer to them as psychopaths. :)

But hey, that's why GOD made MEN and WOMEN so different. For them to complement each other.

For example can you imagine 2 stupid MEN being married together? Or can you envisage 2 psychopaths being married? Boy! It sure is a scary thought.

MEN are unable to see things in minor details, they often see the BIG PICTURE and set their target on reaching it, with any way POSSIBLE (often being SPONTANEOUS - which of course gets on WOMEN's nerves).

Whereas WOMEN are very "detailed" beings. Everything has to be planned accordingly to reach a desired goal. WOMEN are ORGANISED. WOMEN will often get annoyed by MEN's lack of ability to plan ahead, but MEN do not see this as a problem simply because NOTHING IS CERTAIN IN LIFE, and they feel that whatever is planned will not work 100%.

So why bother planning? :)

But if you look at it in another angle, this is again GOD's plan to make MEN and WOMEN different in this sense. MEN looks at the big picture. WOMEN plans the minor details. MEN will follow the detailed plans of WOMEN and accept whatever they say. If plans don't go accordinly, No worries mate, there's always plan B (being spontaneous) - that's why MEN don't really bother about planning ahead.

Can you imagine 2 WOMEN being married to each other and constantly arguing whose plan is better? That's why I say GOD put MEN and WOMEN together, cause MEN generally accepts the detail plans of a WOMEN to reach his goal (with the option of being Spontaneous, of course).

Next, MEN often keeps their anger or frustration inside, and feel it is not necessary to START A FIGHT (cause so often he will lose - even when he is right!), WOMEN on the other hand, love to start a conflict.

Therefore I think the 90s movie entitled "I love trouble" was actually meant for WOMEN. WOMEN are not afraid to speak their minds, whenever, whatever, however. They just SHOOT, SHOOT and keep SHOOTING. But often times, WOMEN do make really good points which do make MEN pause for a moment and reminisce. That's the beauty of things in marriage.But the main point I would like to make here is this;When a fight happens between a MAN and a WOMAN, the MAN should never ever attempt to hurt the woman either physically or emotionally, eventhough the desire is sometimes unbearable, but a complete dose of SELF CONTROL is needed. That's why GOD made MEN to be MEN. We are to be the protector of your WOMAN, no matter what.

WOMEN can say things in anger, which will hurt MEN. But MEN should brush aside everything that is said towards him that may be hurtful, insulting or offensive, cause we are MEN. But the Golden Rule is, WOMEN are given the privilege to be "sensitive" creatures, and I mean this in a good way.

No matter how angry WOMEN get and what she says during times of anger, remember one thing, she will always be a WOMAN who is easily hurt, that's why she is called a WOMAN.

And this is when she needs your quality of being PATIENT to shine through. No matter what, she should know that you will always be her PROTECTOR and not her PROSECUTOR.

With my love and all the roses of world to my cat, who deserves better, sweeter and life full of love...

1 comment:

Shimaa Gamal said...

Well, I agree that men see the bigger picture and women focus on the details. But I don't think men are really simple. Simplicity is a complicated art ;)

And though the differences between men and women make them form perfect teams. I believe that there should always be a limit for these differences on the personal level. No one should take more than what he can really take. And there should be no sacrifices that the other side isn't aware of. And sure, controlling temper from both sides is needed not only the man's side.

And both should avoid fighting. I have a personal issue regarding fights. I don't know how can two people fight and stay together. I can understand disagreements, different in opinions and both can't be considered a fight. A fight is usually considering a conflict in interests. It is like when I decide to go right and you decide to go left and we can't find a road in between. How can we get to that wall and be fine after that? These types of conflicts harm the relationship. And will eventually cause a malfunction of some sort.

No one should sacrifice or compromise without the other side being completely aware of that sacrifice.

And above all, out of respect both sides should avoid saying things that will hurt the other side.

I really enjoyed reading this post